After reading Sarah's blog, I had two immediate thoughts:
1) Good grief! we're back to Sleepless in Seattle again. It is interesting (I say that a bit begrudgingly) how such an irritating movie has become so relevant to this class and our study of film and its many elements. This gives me hope that my mundane and pathetically simple little life will become the best-selling book I so badly want it to be. I mean, if Sleepless can do it, so can I. Heck, compared to Ryan's Annie, I'll even look "normal." Score.
Albeit unprofessional/cheating/informal/etc, I feel obliged to draw upon several personal experiences to make my point. (Kind reader, do not judge me yet.)
First and foremost, film is omnipresent in our lives, from the time we are born until the time we die. We might begin with television ("Can you tell me how to get, how to get to Sesame Street?" oh, sing with me!) or we might be started on video right away (On account of being the super-eldest cousin of all 14, I've seen "Baby Mozart" more times that I care to discuss), but ultimately we always end up at film. Even if our parents try to keep us from it, inevitably, they fail because film has become such an important educational and cultural tool that children are bound to come across it at school (if they never have before) or after, and since every child is required by law to be given an education, they will all encounter it at some point or another (yes, even the home-schooled ones). Film is an intricate part of culture and society, and we, as byproducts of both, are shaped and affected by it.
First and foremost, film is omnipresent in our lives, from the time we are born until the time we die. We might begin with television ("Can you tell me how to get, how to get to Sesame Street?" oh, sing with me!) or we might be started on video right away (On account of being the super-eldest cousin of all 14, I've seen "Baby Mozart" more times that I care to discuss), but ultimately we always end up at film. Even if our parents try to keep us from it, inevitably, they fail because film has become such an important educational and cultural tool that children are bound to come across it at school (if they never have before) or after, and since every child is required by law to be given an education, they will all encounter it at some point or another (yes, even the home-schooled ones). Film is an intricate part of culture and society, and we, as byproducts of both, are shaped and affected by it.
What's more, we're bound to encounter many different types of film throughout our early lives. The soon-to-be-autobiographer's very own sibling is a prime example. My youngest brother, devoted Barney fan until the age of 5 (we humor him that it was 3), at which point he moved onto Power Rangers Seasons 3-12, now finds in himself a supreme affinity for James Bond and Seth Rogen. Shocking? Hardly, considering what came after Barney and during Power Rangers: Mission: Impossible (TBS), Mrs. Doubtfire (mother-approved), Robin Hood: Men in Tights (ditto), American Pie 1&2 (mother-not-knowing), Saving Private Ryan (Father: "Well, your great uncle did fight in World War II..."), and the Van Wilder special collection. The child (precocious young thing) has seen more than his share of films from different genres, appreciated them all (sort of), and developed his own tastes. But what's more, this repertoire has affected him. He's been clever, resourceful, confident, wickedly funny, a "typical teenage boy," and solemn. And while he would have experienced all of these things without the guidance of popular film icons, his understanding and impression of these traits has been forever altered by them. In today's world, it is impossible to not associate Matt Damon with serious, intelligent (ex?) government worker and Kiera Knightly with Renaissance couture, syntax, and custom. The actors and characters come to personify traits that, when presented by us, echo, even if just momentarily, that characters who once truly embodied them.
Thus, as Sarah says, the protagonist of the film becomes a role model for us, someone we try to emulate in hopes of coming across the same way that they do or having what they have. Does my younger brother want to be an unemployed pothead? Hardly. But he does like the cavalier demeanor and hilarious stream of consciousness that are part of Seth Rogen's usually (deep-down) nice guy characters. Does he want to be constantly on the run and in danger of losing his life? Not if Heaven doesn't have X-Box live. But Bond's debonair nature and lavish lifestyle are undeniably appealing.
Annie's (Meg Ryan) role model, although unidimensional and porous, is a role model nonetheless (one who reflects the aforementioned traits back onto Annie). And the truth is, Annie herself becomes a role model as well. Granted, her dedicated "followers" might be few in number, but they are there nonetheless because they want to believe in Annie's quest for memorable love, the same way that Annie wants to believe Terry McKay (Deborah Kerr). I would suggest that her waivering isn't so much insecurity or uncertainty as it is reason battling against the siege her heart has just launched. Annie knows it's foolish to want to be like Terry, but some part of her just can't help it.
This inner battle is, I'd wager, something we've all seen before. For my part, I've done many silly things for the sake of imitating my role models. After seeing My Best Friend's Wedding (another sneak-by-the-mother film. Tragically, I was later caught), I wanted nothing more than to dress and speak and look the way that Kimmy (Cameron Diaz) did. This was short-lived, as I met Rose (Kate Winslet, still my idol) aboard the Titanic not long after, and her gorgeous necklace completely changed my sentiments about jewelry. And then there was Satine (Nicole Kidman, Moulin Rouge!) a few years later, who re-kindled the French flame that had died out years before. Most recently, I've aimed to be some hybrid of Audrey Hepburn and Eva Green, an endeavor which has colored my closet a lot blacker, forced my to work of my enunciation of words, and left me in search of, of course, a smart black hat.
Is this all fruitless? Almost completely, because just as Sarah recognizes of herself and Annie, the success of these imitations is greatly hampered within the social constructs of the real world. But my failure to make these imitations work only serves to further reminds me that while life is not like film, mankind will never cease in trying to make it so. We are forever tied to what we have seen on the screen before, and what we will see before we die. The images, the relationships, and the characters all endure; we merely serve to fulfill their legacy as we, deliberately or accidentally, strive to achieve the perfection they once attained on screen. While this may not help women in their quest for good role models, it promises results if one should ever come into a frame.

